There is a balance when men and women understand the strengths of each other's communication styles. When men and women learn to communicate with each other according to their styles, they live in harmony.
Effective communication is a prerequisite to living in harmony with anyone. Communication is a prerequisite to understanding what one's thoughts and intentions are. Communication is key to success in life, in any relationship, and in the workplace.
Having a wealth of knowledge, in knowing the best communication strategy to use, in delivering your response, determining the next course of action to take when communicating, comes with experience. Experience is the best educator.
In this article, we will examine the need to understand the various communication styles of women.
Are you wondering how you can live in harmony with women? Then you have to understand the way a woman is designed to communicate, and what influences the way she communicates. Women and men need to understand each other's styles of communication to chart the best course of life. This enables them to reach their common goals, but also experience their journey in the fullest, wisest, and rewarding way possible.
. Her Brain:
The woman's brain allows her to process facts and feelings at the same time. She keeps her emotions with her whenever she is communicating with anyone, and when she is thinking. This influences her perspectives on the world around her and the communication she receives.
. Her Emotions:
Women are emotional beings, and it reflects in the way she processes verbal and nonverbal information around her. Failure to understand this has left many in awe and in self-defense around her for many years. Men and women struggle with these issues, and only a few have been able to understand the way a woman communicates through her emotions.
As stated by Richard Drobnick from YourTango, "Women use communication to discover how she is feeling and what it is she wants to say. She sees conversation as an act of sharing and an opportunity to increase intimacy with her partner. Through sharing, she releases negative feelings and solidifies her bond with the man she loves."
He states that she uses communication to explore and organize her thoughts — to discover the point of the story. She may not know what information is necessary or excessive until the words come spilling out. A woman isn’t in perennial need for a solution when she initiates a conversation. She’s looking for someone to listen and understand what she’s feeling."
. Her Personality:
A woman's communication style reflects who she is. When a woman receives information, she processes it with emotions, mentally, and with her spiritual mind at the same time. A woman's brain is designed to pick up many details that men can't see or rationalize. She can perceive, analyze, judge, and see relationships between things all at the same time.
Even the clumsiest of woman can see through anything and through any man. It's her nature to coordinate on a grid, track several factors at the same time. So, don't bother lying to a woman, you won't be able to get away with it.
From time immemorial women are weaker vessels, inferior, foolish, not seen as part of the men's world, etc. Today, they've been able to prove the men and the society wrong. Now, we see women walk into the room, take control, and be the boss. Women are taking the lead in organizations and breaking boundaries every day.
.Her Emotional Intelligence:
Studies show that women have higher levels of emotional intelligence and empathy. According to Korn Ferry's research of over 55,000 professionals; women outperformed men in the categories of coaching & mentoring, influence, inspirational leadership, conflict management, organizational awareness, adaptability, teamwork, and achievement orientation. Including the area of social and emotional intelligence.
Women are intelligent communicators. Each of her words aligns with her thoughts and she's come a long way in proving that she can hold anything down without it breaking her. The latest 2019 Fortune List, shows that the number of women in power roles has jumped to 33 women (6.6%). Despite the subtle progress, many women still find themselves in boardrooms full of men; take that for poor communicators.
The woman's multidimensional thinking pattern enables her to see the various aspects of life's choices. This is enabling her to speak up, express her opinions, and use her voice without fear.
The mistake men and society make is underestimating the worth of any woman's ability to communicate with intelligence. Women are excellent communicators and asset to everyone. Don't forget that!
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